tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-82336735896314372132024-03-08T23:36:17.045+00:00StephanieDJLPlus Size Fashion, Travel and Lifestyle BlogStephanieDJLhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08939945149545136553noreply@blogger.comBlogger323125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8233673589631437213.post-64240275843713440382019-01-20T21:20:00.000+00:002019-01-20T21:20:06.812+00:005 Beauty Mistakes I Made (So You Don’t Have To)<img border="0" data-original-height="884" data-original-width="1254" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-890mQDTAS6A/XETj2VsnmZI/AAAAAAAABnA/e9rRXqUTrfsJZ9vOVu7jW3veNfj03k0ggCLcBGAs/s1600/thumbnail_IMG_1534.jpg" /><br><br>
Worth a staggering £17 billion, the UK beauty industry is growing rapidly in our appearance obsessed culture, with skincare sales increasing exponentially as new innovations continue to hit the mass market. We’ve never had so much choice, and those of us obsessed with achieving and sustaining a natural glow are taking full advantage. <br><br>
Although I’m still working on perfecting my skincare care routine, unfortunately it hasn’t always been retinol and vitamin infused sheet masks. Let me share some of the less fortuitous (read: questionably and crazy) beauty mistakes I’ve made along the way, I’m sure we can all learn something – mostly, don’t try this at home. <br>
<b><br>1. Unconventional Exfoliation <br></b><br>
Although now a distant memory, chicken skin arms seemed to be a huge concern in my teen years, I would slather on body lotion and go to town with the St Ives apricot scrub (you all know the one). It wasn’t just my arms either, at one point my forehead seemed to be getting in on the pimply skin action and that just wouldn’t do. <br><br>
One night, after a stroke of genius, I decided to take a glass nail file to my forehead and tackle the problem, quite literally head on. It went about as well as expected. I put in the work with that nail file, I sanded down my forehead like it was year 9 wood work and I’d just been let loose on a belt sander, your nail tech could never. Unfortunately for me, headbutting a brick wall would have been just as effective and would have created similar results. The next day, I looked like I’d hit the ground forehead first after taking a tumble over some handle bars. It was a LOOK. What about covering it up? Did I mention this was before the days of Dream Matte Mousse (the only foundation available to me as a youth)? Perhaps an ill-advised clip on fringe? Forget about it. I had to walk into school the next day and own my bad decision. A suggestion, if you find yourself considering reaching for the toolbox to smooth uneven skin tone? Try <a href="https://shopstyle.it/l/YsGz">Glycolic Acid</a> instead. <br><br>
<b>2. Cheap but not Cheerful <br><br></b>
If you’ve never had to shave with a single use, orange Bic Razor, you haven’t lived. A lethal instrument, better used as a shiv than a tool for hair removal, but a rite of passage nonetheless. The time I’m referring to started out as tricky as ever, the usual nicks leaving drops of blood dripping down my shins but then, I got too cocky and it all went to pot. I slipped you see, my heel dropped off the side of the bath with some speed, just as I took a swipe at my ankle, and if my aim was to take off a chunk of my heel, well I succeeded admirably. <br><br>
A normal person, may have dropped the fleshy razor and applied pressure to the wound; obviously, I jumped out of the shower, grabbed a towel & ran screaming down the stairs, waving the razor like a bloody, battle axe. My mother had very little sympathy for her soon to be legless child and joined me in screaming, not about the severed leg, about the blood stains ruining the carpet. It was all very dramatic. Worse, ineffective, because in all of the drama, I didn’t even finish shaving my leg. 0/10 would not recommend. <br><br>
<b>3. A dangerous foray into bikini waxing <br><br></b><a name='more'></a>
This one also involves hair but of the more intimate kind, I would blame this on teenage stupidity but if you know me, you’ll know it was a very ‘on brand’ move. Now, I was quite young when this incident occurred, too young to properly think this through and definitely too young to manage the outcome appropriately. You see my nana used to be an Avon lady and that meant, if I wanted a beauty product, it had better be available within that A5 booklet or it wasn’t happening. After some convincing, I talked her into ordering me some leg waxing strips. I’m not a complete idiot, so initially, I did utilise them on the sparse hair on my shins. Then, I had the genius idea to put them to work on other parts of my anatomy. <br><br>
It went about as well as the nail file scenario. First, was panic, I couldn’t get the damn thing off. Then came rationalisation, I’ll just cut the edges off and live like this until it inevitably falls off or melds into my skin, whichever comes first. Next was determination, the stress of yanking off the strip was far outweighed by the sheer panic of having to explain the ridiculous situation to anyone. So, I pulled. Christ on a bike, I should have picked option two. I’ll spare you the gruesome details, let’s just say wearing pants and taking part in PE was excruciating for a good while after. <br><br>
<b>4. You get what you pay for<br><br></b>
Perhaps the worst thing about this one, is that it seemed like a fabulous idea at the time and it is only now, with hindsight, I realise I made a mistake. Let’s talk about eyebrows. Unless you’re fortunate enough to be a member of Gen Z, I am certain you can join me in grimacing over the incredibly thin, overplucked, eyebrows of days past. I was very proud of mine. They were also heavily complimented by members of the general public on a regular basis, so I don’t feel I can take sole responsibility for this one. I had a regular appointment with the lovely woman in my local Superdrug & I felt like the fanciest bitch. A cheeky fiver in exchange for wonderbrows? Absolute bargain! …If we completely ignore how much time and money, I have spent on growing them back. Cara Delevigne would never. <br><br>
<b>5. Moustache why I thought this was a good idea <br><br></b>
I’m sensing a hairy theme here, clearly my dreams of being as slippery as a seal will not be thwarted by a couple of unfortunate mishaps. In my case, it would seem you definitely don’t live and learn. This time we’re combining wax strips with my face, at least I can say these wax strips were used for their intended purpose. Sadly, that purpose doesn’t involve re-waxing the same area more than once. On the upside, my upper lip was hairless. On the downside, it was also skinless. The next day at school, I had to explain that no, I didn’t have a serious case of herpes; yes, I am still a massive idiot. <br><br>
As can be seen by some of my<a href="http://www.stephaniedjl.com/2010/10/mac-venomous-villains-haul.html"> previous forays into ‘beauty blogging’</a>, this is only a few from a very long list of mistakes. If there’s one thing we’ve learned, it is to never underestimate the amount of effort I am willing to put into looking a damn fool. I would say I have grown and now know better, but I am sitting here with chemical burns around my neck after a recent incident with some cream. At least I’m consistent. <br><br>
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Alternatively, let me know your best beauty buy. I’m ready to turn things around. <b><br>xxx</b><br />
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StephanieDJLhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08939945149545136553noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8233673589631437213.post-40685755205237715532018-11-03T01:28:00.002+00:002018-11-03T14:30:03.300+00:00Living With Body Dysmorphic Disorder<img border="0" data-original-height="1241" data-original-width="1600" src="https://2.bp.blogspot.com/-ZldIs7tOfOI/W9zsX-yXjXI/AAAAAAAABm0/jYkVjW_eKasdcbVUi8lzqw14SiKnuBRyACLcBGAs/s1600/IMG_4906.jpg" />
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I am obsessed with my appearance. <br>
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Not in an overly narcissistic, ‘damn girl you look good’
kinda way, which would be infinitely preferable, but in an ‘I just can’t accept
this is what I look like’ way. How I look and how<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"> I think </i>I look and how that makes me feel has taken over my life.
It’s what I spend the majority of my time thinking about and it sets the tone
for my entire mood, as more often than not I am repulsed by what I see. </div>
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I obsessively check my reflection in every mirror, shadow
and reflective surface. I have studied the way I walk, talk and exist from
all angles with greater fervour than I have applied to anything in life. I am
hyper aware of my existence and the space I occupy, and it is exhausting. The
hatred and paranoia run so deep, I am terrified to even consider the
possibility of accepting myself as I am, because I can’t think of anything
worse than settling for this. Just the thought of settling for <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">this</i> makes me panic. </div>
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Body Dysmorphic Disorder often focuses on one perceived flaw
but when I look at myself, I am unable to see anything but flaws, it’s
exhausting and time consuming and only seems to be getting worse as so much
of my time is spent looking at myself and others on social media. I dislike eye
contact because I don’t like having people looking at me, I don’t like being
hugged as I fear the repulsion from people having to touch me, I will repeatedly
go over pictures other people have taken of me to pick apart how I look from
all angles, I alternate between avoiding mirrors entirely to spending hours
looking at myself and overanalysing every pore. I am frequently late because sometimes how
I look is so distressing, I get too anxious to leave the house. From the size
of my forehead to the shape of my feet, there is literally nothing I haven’t
found an issue with. I haven’t been to a hairdresser in ten years for fear of offending
someone with how awful my hair is. </div>
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For as long as I can remember, I have been told that how I
am, who I am, is wrong and I am reluctant to believe anything else. Emotional
abuse is so insidious it seeps in and distorts everything you thought you knew
and replaces it with what you now know. See, when you’re told something
enough it starts to stick and I don’t know how to throw it out and start
over. Worse, do I even want to - because what am I without this hanging over me? I
have convinced myself, I can only enjoy life once I look a certain way – a way
that constantly changes, depending what offends me most that day. I have a
plastic surgery wish list longer than my arm and once contemplated having to
learn to walk again, because I read it was possible to have bone removed from
your thighs to make you shorter. I would literally do anything to look like somebody
else, I just don’t have the funds to do so. </div>
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I don’t have any memories from what it was like before, what
I was like before. Surely, I didn’t feel this way at 5? But I can’t remember. I
can’t remember. I can remember being called a half-breed at 7, I can remember
being called a p*ki at 11, a n****er at 16. I can remember being groped and
pushed and spat on. I can remember being told I was worthless and disgusting,
that no one would ever love me, that my own father didn’t want me, that I was
repulsive and unwanted and and... I can remember being laughed at. I can
remember being humiliated over and over and over again, until I had to be the
one telling the ‘jokes’, making the quips, just to get it out of the way. </div>
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I can remember you mocking my hair and my teeth and my laugh
and my singing and my friends and my clothes and my interests and my scars and
my stretch marks and I can remember getting so angry that I wanted to hurt you,
but I couldn’t, so I hurt myself instead. I’m still hurting myself, I still
hurt, it still hurts, and I don’t know why I care so much when you never did. I
wish I didn’t, I wish your words were as worthless to me as I find myself but
that’s not how this works. You made it easy for me to see all the ways in which
I’m not enough. How I will never be enough.</div>
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Recently, I took part in a photoshoot for Lovedrobe with <a href="https://www.instagram.com/jessontheplussize/">Jess</a>
and <a href="https://violetglenton.co.uk/">Violet</a>, an incredible opportunity with some fabulous people, but a
terrifying concept when you don’t like what you look like. You’re probably
thinking this sounds ridiculous, considering I have spent years posting thousands
of pictures of myself all over the internet, but posing for yourself or with friends
is very different to having to model, to be aware of your physical presence in
a way I so frequently try to avoid. Overall, I had a great experience, due to the wonderful team, and it was
a fabulous day but it was a struggle; I knew I needed to look at the images to
see how to improve but I also knew looking at myself would only cause me to
focus on how much I don’t like my appearance and how terrible I looked in HD. </div>
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They say you can’t love anyone until you love yourself and
I refuse to believe it. Sometimes I love so much, I fear my chest may collapse
with the weight of it. Sometimes I worry it’s the only thing I have. I hope
that by filling everyone else up, no one will notice how empty I am. How
there’s a gaping hollow where a life should be, a grim, miserable shadow of an
existence, too concerned with visuals to pay attention to details. Too caught
up in what’s going wrong to focus on anything going right, too obsessed with an
impossible idea of perfection to enjoy the experience of living. </div>
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My previous therapist liked to reiterate that the opinions
of others aren’t important and would question why I allowed the ignorance of
complete strangers to have an affect on how I choose to view myself – a
seemingly rational idea but one that seems impossible to maintain because
everyone has an opinion on my appearance and my whispers of confidence flicker and
fade under the roaring discontent my existence seems to inspire. It would seem,
the combination of being tall, fat, black, and female is just too much for
people to take and I am subjected to idiocy on the daily. On a good day my
anger acts as shield, and the rage I feel towards people who feel they have a
right to comment on others’ appearance deflects the potential hurt. On a bad
day, I disassociate and lose hours of my life to a daydream world. </div>
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BDD is isolating and exhausting
and I fear there is an overlap with how all fat girls are believed to feel, or
have felt, because it’s expected we feel this negatively towards ourselves. Worse,
fat people who don’t feel this way are subjected to endless abuse regarding how
and why they should. If you feel like this, even a fraction, sometimes or all
the time, I’m so sorry. You must be so tired. </div><br>
As with all mental illness, there
are good days and there are worse days, but this is something I am always
dealing with. I wanted to share my experience because whilst extreme, I know
many of us struggle with our appearance and the comparative nature of social media
can have adverse effects on our overall self-worth. Sometimes it’s just a bad
day, but if you fear you may be struggling, please speak to your GP.
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<u>Resources</u>:
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<b><a href="https://www.mind.org.uk/information-support/types-of-mental-health-problems/body-dysmorphic-disorder-bdd/about-bdd/?o=6259#.W9zhsPaYS01">Mind</a><br></b>
<b><a href="https://www.nhs.uk/Service-Search/Psychological%20therapies%20(IAPT)/LocationSearch/10008">IAPT</a><br>
<a href="https://bddfoundation.org/">BDD Foundation</a></b><br><br>
Previously, I have written about <a href="http://www.stephaniedjl.com/2016/10/stressed-depressed-but-well-dressed_10.html">my struggles with depression.</a><br>
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<br />Always remember, no matter how you feel about yourself, you are always worthy of love & respect.<b><br>xxx</b><br />
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StephanieDJLhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08939945149545136553noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8233673589631437213.post-54506634190155861672018-03-25T22:53:00.000+01:002018-11-03T14:47:28.809+00:00Plus+ Book by Bethany Rutter - Launch & Review <img border="0" src="https://3.bp.blogspot.com/-nhd30qiPKgo/WoTCkQ7mouI/AAAAAAAABkA/_gzJWCQt1849pScMrrhVXYe3ZDRjAHGcgCLcBGAs/s1600/IMG_0998.jpg" data-original-width="1600" data-original-height="1413" /><br><br>
Plus+, the first plus-size street style fashion book edited by <a href="https://bethanyrutter.com/">Bethany Rutter</a> is out now & you can order your copy <a href="https://amzn.to/2IUiIoA">here</a>. Last month, I had the pleasure of attending the Plus+ book launch in London. Aside from getting to share Bethany's excitement, the morning was overwhelming in the best possible way. Walking into the room, to be greeted by a wall of beautiful images of stylish women, wouldn't usually make me emotional but they <i>were all plus size</i>, not just one token size 14 but all plus-size & as magnificent as they were different. <br>
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<img border="0" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-q8iXpKUJ3XE/WrgPVJG-4oI/AAAAAAAABmE/H2EQHnJFmXYZCCg1UPj2A4NSWsRFmclrACLcBGAs/s1600/thumbnail_IMG_1021.jpg" data-original-width="719" data-original-height="1280" /><br><br> I've been involved with the plus-size fashion community for a long time now & each year something new is added that changes how we view, buy, or interact with fashion and each other. This is the first time I've seen something that so beautifully encapsulates the diversity of the plus-size community whilst reinforcing why the community was created in the first place, to give a platform to those ostracised by the fashion industry. I can genuinely say, the livejournal Fatshionista community changed my life & it is incredible to see how far we've come. I can only hope someone picks up this book & realises they can wear whatever the hell they like, <i>be</i> whoever they like, with no apologies. <br><br>
<img border="0" src="https://4.bp.blogspot.com/-1d89A2IE4iQ/WrgPgLgs68I/AAAAAAAABmI/OgkoyIkKtmIMsRHdpJQ0ODv_Vy8LeNAGACLcBGAs/s1600/thumbnail_IMG_0989.jpg" data-original-width="960" data-original-height="1280" /><br><br>I won't spoilt it by showing you all my favourite outfits or by writing my favourite quotes (there's also potentially too many) but I will say Bethany has put it together beautifully. Each page brings a completely different take on fashion, some see it as a rebellion, others a reflection of identity, some are still discovering their personal style whilst others have honed it. Regardless of how long you've been in the community or how many fashion account you follow, you are guaranteed to come across people you've never seen before. No matter how outlandish or uniform your personal style, you are guaranteed to find inspiration amongst the pages. More importantly, no matter your size, age or race, you can see yourself reflected in the pages & oh, what a wonderful feeling that is. <br><br>
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I know, I know, I said I wasn't going to share quotes but I couldn't let this one go amiss as it really resonated with me:
<blockquote>At various points in my life my outfits have had much to say about what identities I occupied: be it man-eater or psychobilly queen or, as Kendrick says, an 'antisocial extrovert'. The more streamlined, rooted and mature my life becomes the more I veer into minimalism. I still bust out full on 'looks' if my mood dictates it but I no longer feel pressured to perform, a luxury I feel most fat girls aren't afforded.' - <a href="https://www.instagram.com/ushshi/">@Ushshi</a></blockquote>
I have a lot of feelings on this, which I will write more on at a later date, but for a group who are continually overlooked, practically invisible even, we are consistently on display & how we dress or act is often down to how we want to appear as opposed to how we actually are. We've come a long way but we have a long way to go and I can't wait to see what's next.
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</center>StephanieDJLhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08939945149545136553noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8233673589631437213.post-73319456533968678332018-02-25T19:59:00.000+00:002018-11-03T14:47:47.327+00:00What I Wore // RI Plus Boyfriend Tee<img border="0" src="https://3.bp.blogspot.com/-_s5ce0cW9xA/WpL4O9WaKvI/AAAAAAAABk0/mfcwSE_ZDr89KlmNhuY-dQYulgQbXgTFQCLcBGAs/s1600/DSC02566.JPG" data-original-width="1600" data-original-height="908" /><br>
<center><small>Jacket: <a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/zDfo">River Island</a> // T-Shirt: <a href="https://www.riverisland.com/c/women/tops">River Island</a> // Skirt: <a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/zCF4">ASOS</a> // Socks: <a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/zCHe">Topshop</a> // Hitops: <a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/zCFC">Converse</a> // Sunglasses: <a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/zCI1">Celine</a> //<br> Watch: <a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/zCK9">Larsson & Jennings</a> // Hoops: <a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/zCFP">Nasty Gal</a></center></small><br>
I tweeted yesterday that I felt I was on the precipice of change, just needing the momentum to make the leap. I have been stagnant for too long, stuck in a mental rut of despair with no freedom to make the right move. Today was a glimmer of light at the end of a very long tunnel but I am finally moving towards it. Spring, the embodiment of change, is coming & I am ready for it. <br>
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<img border="0" src="https://4.bp.blogspot.com/-tZGnKFYfzMA/WpL8nLmhEDI/AAAAAAAABlM/u2ySvh83vIk5ESt5u9o3sYP2mOKEKDFbQCLcBGAs/s1600/DSC02615.JPG" data-original-width="1065" data-original-height="1600" /><br><br>Speaking of change, this is the first time I've ever worn a red lip (Ruby Woo by Mac) & I'm into it.Obviously, this means I can give myself the go ahead to buy the <a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/zC2W">Fenty Stunna Lip Paint</a> & not feel bad about it! This is also the first time (aside from once on holiday but that doesn't count), I've dried my hair curly & just let it do it's own thing. I'm still not 100% but I'm going to play around with different products to see if I can make the curls more defined. Any recommendations?
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I wear this top a lot but it's an old favourite from River Island Plus & I am obsessed with the fit. When it comes to plus size <a href="https://www.riverisland.com/c/women/tops">tops</a>, they are definitely my favourite; the material is of good quality, they designs are on trend & they're actually long enough to wear with jeans & not have an awkward crotch situation. I've just ordered <a href="https://www.riverisland.com/p/plus-grey-la-vie-est-boyfriend-t-shirt-714669">this one</a> & <a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/zDaV">this one</a> to start off my summer wardrobe. Let me know what you've been buying, I need the inspiration.
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Now that I'm getting into the swing of things, I'm going to post more frequently & make more of an effort with varied content. So if you get chance, let me know what you'd like to see. Until then, have an incredible week. <br><bR>
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<center><br />This is your Sunday evening reminder that<br> you can handle whatever this week throws at you<b><br />xxx</b><br />
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</center>StephanieDJLhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08939945149545136553noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8233673589631437213.post-31870509233997733272018-02-11T15:09:00.002+00:002018-11-03T14:51:34.375+00:006 Things to do in Amsterdam<img border="0" src="https://3.bp.blogspot.com/-uOtf8a2wyzU/Wn84FGt3UWI/AAAAAAAABik/8xrnPA19aL0PrwGahFFTjhTVByb4xk3WQCLcBGAs/s1600/DSC02049.JPG" data-original-width="1600" data-original-height="1066" />
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Amsterdam may be my favourite city in Europe, it's the perfect blend of metropolis chaos & country chill with enough to do to keep everyone happy. Whatever the weather, there's truly something for everyone, so if you're considering a city break or a solo trip, here's six things to keep you busy:
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A canal ride is the best way to experience the history of Amsterdam. The experience very much depends on the driver (captain? tour guide?) but the ones I've had, have always been friendly and hilarious and have made the trip interesting & interactive. As you will see from the lack of museums on this list, I'm not usually interested in History but learning about how the city came to be, why the houses are shaped as they are and snippets of what has happened, is fascinating. Also, this is the perfect opportunity to relax and take pictures. Definitely one for a warmer day though as even with the blankets on board, it's not pleasant in the cold. For the brave, you could always hire a boat & discover the city on your own terms. <br><Br>
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Just outside Amsterdam Central Station, there are free ferries that will take you across the water to Amsterdam North. You can have a wander around the EYE museum, stop for a bite to eat and overlook the stunning view from the top of the EYE steps. Alternatively, hire a bike & follow the cycle path along the river, through a beautiful market town to a quiet park. If like me, you're not the most confident cyclist, this is perfect place to while away a sunny day. The views are stunning and it's far less chaotic than the city. I would suggest taking water & snacks if you intend to cycle further up. <br><br>
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Although not technically Amsterdam, a train ride to Zaanse Schans, a neighbourhood in Zaandam, is worth a visit. A beautiful village of historic houses and windmills can be found on the other side of the bridge. There's plenty of things to do including a ferry trip, a chocolate shop, a cheese making workshop and even a demonstration on how clogs are made. There's easy to navigate cycle paths, quaint shops and endless scenic countryside. We happened to get caught in the rain but I still managed to sample the ice cream (of course!). On your way back to Amsterdam, hop off the train in Zaandam, the market and <a href="https://www.inntelhotelsamsterdamzaandam.nl/en/">Inntel hotel</a> are worth a look. Better yet, stay at the Inntel & travel into Amsterdam, it's a beautiful hotel & the perfect spot for a relaxing stay. <br><br>
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The Sexmuseum is a short walk from Amsterdam Central Station, shoehorned between a row of souvenir shops & restaurants. Crass & slightly ridiculous, the sex museum makes for a funny visit. More gimmicky than informative, the mix of display cases with interactive displays is amusing enough that even the most reserved among us will be sure to have a giggle. If, unlike me, your tastes are much more refined, the famous Rijksmuseum is the perfect place to spend an afternoon. Open & modern, the museum is a stunning space filled with historical artefacts, art & exhibitions. Unfortunately, all lost on me as I was in & out within the space of 20 minutes. <br><br>
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Shopping in Amsterdam is incredible (as long as you're not looking for plus-size clothes), there are plenty of independent boutiques, interspersed with high street and high end stores so you'll be sure to find something to spend your Euros on. If you're looking to treat yourself, head to P.C. Hooftstraat Amsterdam's best luxury shopping street. It has everything from Cartier to Gucci to Rolex, the streets are lined with expensive cars and doormen that glare at you disdainfully, but that's half the fun. Even if you're not there to spend, this is the perfect place to go window shopping. <br><br>
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Whilst an itinerary is a great way to cram in lots of activity, the ideal way to explore the city is to just get lost in the chaos. Wander down the cobbled streets, people watch at one of the many outside bars, jump on a tram & get off wherever takes your fancy. There's so much to get involved in & the best places are the unexpected ones you stumble across. People are friendly and the trains run 'til late so there's plenty of time to experience everything before heading back to your hotel <br>
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Dear Dad, (<i>if I can even call you that</i>) <br><br>
Sperm donor seems too crass, Mark too personal.<br><br>
Considering we’ve never met, or I’ve never met you at least, I think about you a lot. Not what you’re doing or how you are, not much about you at all I suppose. More of the you I wish existed, and the absence it has left in my life. I don’t want to meet you, I never have. I’m not sure the crushing, disappointing reality of your existence could ever add anything to my life and I’m not ready for more to be taken away. <br><br><a name='more'></a>
I found you, I saw your giant smiling face mocking me from a computer screen, living life a million miles away. Funny how you can move across the globe to Australia but can’t make the 2 hour train ride up North. I don’t wonder if you’re happy, or if you ever think of me, I just hope your life has been nothing but disaster, a series of unfortunate events. I hope your other daughter, and however many others, think of you with the same disregard I do. How nice it must be to knowingly walk away from your own child, without a care in the world. <br><br>
I think it’s good I know nothing about you, what you were like, your passions and interests, it’s not like it changes anything. I still despise you. The worst part of it, is the more I hate you, the more I hate myself for needing this. It hurts you see, being ‘dad-less’. I’ve been told I have your height & legs, meaningless things that somehow define my appearance, but I wouldn’t know if I share your sense of humour, if we have the same tics or the same irritating laugh. I will tell you something about me though, I love being called by an endearment, however patronising or lame, by a bus driver or a creep in a bar; I’m still hoping you see, that one day, I’ll get to be someone’s princess. Tragic, right? <br><br>
But I have a terrible habit of bursting into tears whenever a father shows love for his daughter. The supporting hug after failing an X Factor audition, words of encouragement shared in a tight embrace, the despair of a dad pleading for a cure to save his daughters life, even the lunging of a furious father, desperate for justice. I think I’d like justice; I made myself hard to soften the blows and it made me into someone not easy to love. <br><br>
There’s a moment in Season 1, Episode 6 of My Mad Fat Diary, where Rae tells Kester of a time her & Chloe were playing on the stairs & Chloe got hurt. Her dad stepped over Rae to comfort his daughter and left Rae crying all alone. It was like a sucker punch to the gut. For I have always been Rae, trampled in the process of saving someone else. It happened when I was 12, I lost all my friends and the world felt like it was ending, but our teacher told their parents to stay away from me, to save themselves. And again, and again. When I was older, pulled aside & told I have to protect her because she’s ‘your little girl’ and surely, I’d understand that? But I was just a girl too, never allowed to be little. And while you’re looking out for yours, who’s looking out for me? <br><br>
‘Your own dad didn’t even want you’ like a broken record played on repeat, as if your complete lack of presence wasn’t indication enough. As if I wasn’t enough. Constantly striving for an idea of perfection that doesn’t exist, & falling horribly short every time, I gave up after a while. It’s easier that way. Failure feels like a comfort somehow, the only constant I know I can rely on. It’s easier to have no expectations than to have them all dashed. It's something I'm working on with my therapist. I seem to be discovering problems I never knew existed but I can't blame you solely for that.<br><br>
I don’t know when I stopped hoping and started wishing it was over, that everything could just stop, that the darkness of night would never turn to day. I can't tell you how many times I've gone to bed, praying to a god I don't believe in, that I won't make it 'til dawn. Sometimes I don’t know how it could be possible to hurt any more than this, the weight of the world crushing me into a useless mass. and yet sometimes, I feel nothing at all; sometimes it feels as though a train could crash into me and I wouldn't even notice. I hate you. I hate you so much that it overwhelms me. I’ll tell you something else about me, I have a terrible temper. I joke that like the Hulk, I’m always angry, but it’s not far from the truth. I can go from 0 to 100 real quick, consumed by a dark, vicious cloud that's going to get me into trouble. Sometimes, I hope it does. <br><br>
You left me alone, a literal black sheep of the family and I’ve never felt so lost. You robbed me of my culture, of tradition and of family. I’m not sure I’ll ever forgive you for that. It’s about time I started forgiving myself though, because I don’t deserve to feel like this. <br><br>
I fear the tone of this letter is giving the impression I am in need of you, but please don’t let my sadness fool you, I’m okay. More than. When the dark clouds clear and the sun starts to shine, my life lights up brighter than a city skyline and <i>I am thriving</i>. I have a great life, filled with love and laughter and better relationships than anyone could ever ask for. Everything I have accomplished, all I will achieve, has been and will be, without you; despite you. <br><br>
Maybe one day things will change, and I will be ready to face you. Maybe I won’t. Either way, I will continue to learn and grow and flourish. I am more than the empty parts of me. I am enough. <br><br>
Never Yours, <br>
Stephanie.
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<blockquote>‘Did you want to see me broken?
Bowed head and lowered eyes?
Shoulders falling down like teardrops,
Weakened by my soulful cries?
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Does my haughtiness offend you?
Don’t you take it awful hard,
‘Cause I laugh like I’ve got gold mines,
Diggin’ in my own backyard.
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Leaving behind nights of terror and fear,
I rise,
Into a daybreak that’s wondrously clear,
I rise,
Bringing the gifts that my ancestors gave,
I am the dream and the hope of the slave.<br>
I rise<br>
I rise<br>
I rise.’<br><br>
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January saw me escape the depths of hell to start a new role that (on most days) I love. There was a stage where I didn't think it was possible to not be thoroughly depressed whilst working & although I'm not where I want to be, I've taken the first step. <br />
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Considering my truly appalling attempts at blogging, I seem to have been blessed with several incredible opportunities that I most definitely don't deserve but am forever grateful for. To name a few, I was a nominee in the <a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/s2sT"> Navabi Plus Size Blog Awards</a> & although I didn't win, the support I received from friends, family & colleagues was genuinely overwhelming; I got to travel to London for Fashion Week with <a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/s2ti">Simply Be</a>, not once but <i>twice</i>; my face was in Simply Be magazine, my giant head printed on the page for all to see, what a time to be alive; my face also appeared in <a href="http://www.nerdabouttown.com/">Steph's</a> incredible ELLE article on <a href="http://www.elleuk.com/fashion/longform/a38300/women-of-colour-left-out-of-body-positivity/">black women being left out of the body positive movement</a>; I got to experience afternoon tea at Sketch London & I got to sit FROW at the Curve Catwalk. I mean, <i>I'm</i> jealous of me. & also baffled as to how this is my life. <br />
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<b>3. Blogger Pals</b><br />
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Speaking of LFW, how can I make a list of 2017 highlights without including the time spent with <a href="http://www.terribletumbles.co.uk/">Em</a>? A shining light, hilarious comrade & all round ultimate babe; it has been an absolute pleasure getting to spend time with my favourite red head. As is evident, I could wax lyrical about my love for Em but I fear this has already gotten too emotional. When I attended Curve Fashion Festival in 2016, the only person I knew was <a href="http://aroselikethis.blogspot.co.uk/">Rosie</a>, the blogging game had changed since I had last dabbled & I was way out of my depth. Em, <a href="https://iamnoshrinkingviolet.co.uk/">Violet</a>, <a href="http://www.cardifforniagurl.co.uk/">McKayla</a> & <a href="http://www.beckybarnesblog.co.uk/">Becky</a> accepted me like an old pal, even though I was essentially a 2 out of 5 on the Steph scale that day. They have continued to be rays of sunshine in 2017 & remind me why it is I got into blogging in the first place. While I'm on board the love train, I can't forget <a href="http://jessontheplussize.com/">Jess</a> & Leanne, I'm not quite sure what I was doing with my life before these Geordie delights entered it. Thank you all for inspiring me on the daily, I can only apologise for being extra. <br />
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<b>4. The Curve Fashion Festival</b><br />
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This is potentially cheating slightly as it combines both 2 and 3, however, it was far too good of an event to miss out, even if I did show up more than fashionably late. As well as seeing my faves, I finally got to meet <a href="http://graciefrancesca.com/">Grace</a> & <a href="https://friendsthatshoptogether.co.uk/">Aimee</a>. & more importantly, got to look at the fine ass male models Yours Clothing decided to bring along this time around. If there's a next time, I intend to turn up early & take full advantage of the stalls giving out free prosecco. <br />
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<b>5. Travel</b><br />
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2017 saw me travel many a town & city in the UK, as well as a fair few abroad. I was lucky enough to visit Germany, Hungary, Holland & Jamaica & each trip was more incredible than the next. From slicing my tongue open after choking on a broken shot glass in Budapest to stripping down to a bikini & taking blog pictures in Runaway Bay, my travels have been nothing short of eventful. After being surprised with a trip to New York for my birthday, by my incredible best friend, I am more than ready to get started with the travel plans for 2018. <br />
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<b>6. My Support System</b><br />
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As always, my friends & family continue to be incredible & being able to spend another year making memories with them is everything. I wish I could put into words how much I appreciate the love I receive, even when I don't deserve it. To every single one of you who reads, likes, comments, messages & generally supports me, I am forever grateful. Thank you for being the reason I don't give up on hoping there will be better days.<br />
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<br />What were your highlights of 2017?<b><br />xxx</b><br />
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StephanieDJLhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08939945149545136553noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8233673589631437213.post-40859778084805622282017-10-06T22:23:00.000+01:002018-11-03T14:48:10.649+00:00What I Wore // Aglaë x Navabi<img border="0" data-original-height="1068" data-original-width="1600" src="https://2.bp.blogspot.com/--2YKokso6x8/WbboSJopKLI/AAAAAAAABf0/S17sai1xPb0XCm3TTiIrdNpUQX_l1cPdQCLcBGAs/s1600/36676550730_f3f04e95a7_o.jpg" /><center>
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Winter is coming. Or it feels like it's already here as I'm currently bundled in a fleece blanket waiting for the heating to kick in. The dark mornings have crept up on me & I'm moments away from a full scale SAD breakdown, but before I forget what sun looks like, I have to post this <a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/jFhw">Navabi</a> dress.<br>
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You know when you see something & just know you have to have it? That would be me & this dress. I remember seeing the preview of the nautical stripes & embroidered eyes & knowing I needed it in my life. I'm constantly impressed by the quality & fit of <a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/jFhw">Navabi</a> & this does not disappoint. The shape is perfect & the length works, even on a giant like me. I have worn this several times now, most notably for a night in the Toon with <a href="http://www.terribletumbles.co.uk/">Em</a> & <a href="http://jessontheplussize.com/">Jess</a>, & have received compliments every time (not to #humblebrag or anything). Even Archie, the chunk of a doggo, is impressed.
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If you missed out on this beauty, their new collection is equally as dreamy. Check it out here: <a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/jFkZ">Navabi A/W</a><br>
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StephanieDJLhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08939945149545136553noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8233673589631437213.post-16673797569459336742017-09-25T22:03:00.001+01:002018-11-03T14:51:21.854+00:00Conditional Acceptance: Even if you in a Benz, you still a n**** in a coupe <img border="0" src="https://4.bp.blogspot.com/-HPDMwwtpSzo/WclUWs9PiAI/AAAAAAAABgk/nnd6G_d5cCsB4tm-C_o5TsulHRfSY7MKwCLcBGAs/s1600/160916164438-01-nfl-players-protest-super-169.jpg" data-original-width="1100" data-original-height="619" />
<blockquote><b>conditional</b>
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adjective<br>
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<i>imposing, containing, subject to, or depending on a condition or conditions; not absolute; made or allowed on certain terms:
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I am done with acceptance coming with conditions, especially in relation to race. People will only support you, will only accept you, to a level they are comfortable with & we have accepted this as success. I am tired of fighting, of hoping for a better future; not just for me but for everyone who is still waiting for their right to live in peace. If you have the whole damn pie, don't expect us to settle for your crumbs.
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Assimilation is not acceptance. You can speak the language, wear the clothes, do the job, get the education, pay the taxes, win the medals... it will never be enough. If you think, 'this would never happen to me.', you'd be wrong. One moment can change everything & if it hasn't happened yet, it will. It could be a look, a comment, a headline. It may even be the uncomfortable stare of strangers as you realise you're the only black person around. Visibility does not equal safety & who do you call when the police are the ones committing the crime?
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In the last episode of Dear White People, they perfectly encapsulate the reality that no matter how hard you try, no matter how rich, how popular, how influential you are, the response to your actions relies solely on one thing.
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<blockquote class="twitter-tweet" data-lang="en"><p lang="en" dir="ltr">Stevie Wonder takes a knee for the Anthem during a concert.<br><br>Another ungrateful black multi millionaire. <a href="https://t.co/bpvuGJXLd7">https://t.co/bpvuGJXLd7</a></p>— Joe Walsh (@WalshFreedom) <a href="https://twitter.com/WalshFreedom/status/911791417919508480">September 24, 2017</a></blockquote>
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I was going to list every single one of Stevie Wonders incredible achievements but I shouldn't have to. In short, you would hope his successful & philanthropic career would be enough to garner even a hint of respect but it still isn't enough. 'Ungrateful'? I'm lost as to what exactly he is supposed to be grateful for. When a buffoon like Trump, born wealthy, presides in one of the most influential positions in the world, with zero experience, I am <b>lost</b> as to what we are supposed to be grateful for. This conditional acceptance is the reason your achievements will never be enough.
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Conditional acceptance means you can be gay but not <i>too</i> gay, fat but not <i>too</i> fat, feminine but not <i>too</i> feminine, black but not <i>too</i> black. There is a scale at which your humanity ends & you are no longer allowed a voice. In some ways, conditional acceptance feels more insidious than outright hatred because those you consider friends, allies, may only support you so far. If you're tired of hearing it, we're tired of fighting it. People aren't protesting, marching, petitioning, existing, risking their lives, just because it looks like fun. People are allowed to exist, to live, to love, to act, outside your realm of acceptable. I should not have to lower my voice, be a little nicer, smile a little brighter, for you to accept my existence. Angry Black Woman? You're damn right.
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We need to shout a little louder, yell a little clearer & demand a whole lot extra. No justice, no peace.
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Black lives will always matter.<b><br />xxx</b><br />
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StephanieDJLhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08939945149545136553noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8233673589631437213.post-56899054226428521912017-08-29T22:23:00.000+01:002018-11-03T14:49:12.149+00:00What I Wore // White Jeans & Ruffles <img border="0" data-original-height="1065" data-original-width="1600" height="426" src="https://4.bp.blogspot.com/-NzcjNj6gpIg/WaXDGLJ723I/AAAAAAAABfA/RzJNrxOIKjEqD6PlfhA6c2VqmJLDZ7UzgCLcBGAs/s640/DSC01118.JPG" width="640" /><br />
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As much as I love this shirt, there's something about this outfit that had me feeling like a toff. I was swanning around, looking for the help, about ready to change my name to Chelsea & start attending polo matches on the regs. A usual Friday for some, I'm sure. On the upside, my highlight was poppin' if I do say so myself (which I do, clearly). <br />
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Let's talk about <a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/gbFT">Unique 21 Hero</a> for a moment. When the brand landed on Asos, I was instantly impressed with their initial pieces. I feel plus size clothing is either the basics from the main range or the extreme, & whilst I'm thrilled our options are increasing, there is still a desperate need for classic, tailored pieces. There's a long way to go but for now Unique 21 is injecting a bit of fun into my work wardrobe & I look forward to their range expanding.
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StephanieDJLhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08939945149545136553noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8233673589631437213.post-22157600481419070932017-08-24T14:12:00.000+01:002017-10-06T22:24:31.255+01:00The Curve Fashion Festival 2017*<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><img border="0" src="https://3.bp.blogspot.com/-u6B_Bn6OOTw/WZ4ASTvfqDI/AAAAAAAABeY/URnNMvqWg78qb0j9HdMeY9rCJT3pkb92gCEwYBhgL/s640/IMG_4773.MOV" width="640" height="480" data-original-width="320" data-original-height="240" /></div>
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Last year I attended Curve Fashion Fest, a little bit nervous & a lot overwhelmed, I'd been out of the blogging scene for years & didn't know what to expect. Turns out those fears were all for naught because the day was incredible. Not only did I get to see my blogging boo, <a href="http://aroselikethis.blogspot.co.uk/">Rosie</a>, I also got to spend the day with <a href="http://www.terribletumbles.co.uk/">Em</a>, <a href="http://www.cardifforniagurl.co.uk/">McKayla</a> & <a href="https://iamnoshrinkingviolet.co.uk/">Violet</a>, who are all absolute delights & I can't believe I didn't meet them sooner. As if that wasn't enough, the venue was packed with fabulous brands & a great line-up. <a name='more'></a><br /><br><br>
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This year's <a href="https://thecurvefashionfestival.co.uk/">Curve Fashion Festival</a> is looking to be bigger & better than ever before. Brands including <a href="http://www.newlook.com/uk/womens/curves-plus-size-clothing/c/uk-womens-curves-plus-size-clothing">New Look</a>, <a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/fJMD">BooHoo</a>, <a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/fJOg">River Island</a>, <a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/fJOl">Navabi</a>, <a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/fJMY">Very</a>, <a href="https://www.inthestyle.com/curve?limit=72#isPage=1">In The Style</a> & <a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/fJOy">Missguided</a> will be there, selling some pieces & giving a sneak peek of what's to come next season. <a href="http://www.graciefrancesca.com/">Grace Victory</a> & Tess Holliday will be there talking about their new books, Charlotte Crosby will be showing her new range for In The Style, Felicity Hayward will be there with her inspiring brand <a href="https://www.selflovebringsbeauty.com/">Self Love Brings Beauty</a>, the How To stage will be back giving advice & answering questions & if that wasn't enough for you, there'll be fashion shows, food trucks & an exclusive VIP Lounge.
<br><br>To add to the atmosphere, this year <a href="http://www.debenhams.com/">Debenhams</a> will be bringing their fabulous <a href="http://www.debenhams.com/home/home-decor-accessories">home accessories</a> to dress the brand new chill out zone & kit out the VIP lounge in style. Debenhams will also be supporting the event by dressing both male & female plus models & demonstrating a make-up tutorial on the How To stage with one of their leading make-up brands. This is definitely the plus event of the year & you'd be crazy to miss out!
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TCFF Insta: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/curvefashionfes/">@curvefashionfes</a><br>TCFF Twitter: <a href="https://twitter.com/curvefashionfes?lang=en">@CurveFashionFestival</a><br><br><img border="0" src="https://3.bp.blogspot.com/-12ODmaZwkpE/WZ3x07sTCuI/AAAAAAAABeA/vqrZyTr0Os47PGIevsjkXgZUtu2Y76ncgCLcBGAs/s640/FullSizeRender%2B%25282%2529.jpg" width="438" height="640" data-original-width="400" data-original-height="585" /></center><center><br>
Will I be seeing you there?<b><br />xxx</b><br />
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StephanieDJLhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08939945149545136553noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8233673589631437213.post-71791219385347294622017-08-09T22:09:00.000+01:002018-11-03T14:52:24.202+00:00What I Wore // Elvi Stripe Jumpsuit <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Lx3GP7QXu6k/WYtxl7ECpwI/AAAAAAAABdc/u-n0KEv4l3MDZCwm1VboWOZMv5J9l9RpACLcBGAs/s1600/DSC00961.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Lx3GP7QXu6k/WYtxl7ECpwI/AAAAAAAABdc/u-n0KEv4l3MDZCwm1VboWOZMv5J9l9RpACLcBGAs/s640/DSC00961.JPG" width="640" height="426" data-original-width="1600" data-original-height="1065" /></a></div><center>Jumpsuit: <a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/evP6"> Elvi </a> // Heels: <a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/evQy">ASOS</a></center>
<br>After travelling a million miles to Bexhill on Sea for a friends wedding, I thought I'd take advantage of the sea front location & take classy blog pictures on the sand, real serious & professional. Unfortunately, the wind had other ideas & in most pictures, I look like I'm having a fight with a tornado & losing spectacularly. I did manage to get some relatively composed pictures on the Twilight-esque band stand, fortunately no sparkly vampires were involved.
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This jumpsuit is my first Elvi piece & I am beyond impressed. This is the first time I've had my arms out at an event & I didn't feel uncomfortable once. Seriously, it is the jumpsuit of dreams & it even has pockets! No disrespect to Chanel but I think ya'll should be two things, comfy & fabulous, & this definitely fits the bill.
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My ability to spell is impressive, I know. Unfortunately, my creativity when it comes to blog titles is lacking, so that's the best you're gonna get.
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Some may say a slogan tee is déclassé, a gimmick that capitalism has used to its gain (you wouldn't be wrong), but I rather like the idea of wearing your heart on your sleeve. & who doesn't love the current generation of loud & proud feminists ready to fuck up the patriarchy? <br><br> Now, if only all of the fashion brands selling these items would put their money where their slogans are & increase their sizing/hire more models of colour/diversify their campaigns/give fair wages/ethically source products/stop selling fur etc but hey, where's the commercialism in that? Well, until the next trend rolls around that is. <center>
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StephanieDJLhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08939945149545136553noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8233673589631437213.post-28491801857896252452016-11-13T18:00:00.000+00:002016-12-27T23:36:41.813+00:00Currently Coveting <img alt="nl" height="407" src="https://c2.staticflickr.com/6/5728/30850119921_2b40383370_z.jpg" width="640" /><br />
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<a href="http://www.riverisland.com/women/coats--jackets/jackets/plus-black-shearling-aviator-jacket-691002"> one </a> // <a href="http://www.riverisland.com/women/shoes--boots/shoes/metallic-strappy-mary-jane-shoes-690891"> two </a> // <a href="http://www.riverisland.com/women/tops/t-shirts--vests/plain-t-shirts--vests/plus-silver-metallic-t-shirt-692188"> three </a> // <a href="http://www.riverisland.com/women/tops/t-shirts--vests/stripe-t-shirts--vests/plus-white-stripe-tunic-689717"> four </a> // <a href="http://www.riverisland.com/women/jeans/skinny-jeans/plus-black-amelie-badge-super-skinny-jeans-690471"> five </a> // <a href="http://www.riverisland.com/women/tops/t-shirts--vests/hoodies--sweatshirts/plus-grey-sequin-dinosaur-sweatshirt-690014"> six </a> // <a href="http://www.riverisland.com/women/shoes-boots/boots/_/N-8qp"> seven </a> // <a href="http://www.riverisland.com/women/dresses/t-shirt-dresses/ri-plus-black-dungaree-dress-688853"> eight </a> // <a href="http://www.riverisland.com/women/knitwear/cardigans/plus-grey-chunky-knit-cardigan-691106"> nine </a></center>
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Considering the variety & availability of plus size clothing is greater than ever, this season I'm left feeling underwhelmed & uninspired. I've said it before on <a href="https://twitter.com/StephanieDJL">Twitter</a>, but it honestly baffles me why brands pick one trend for their plus size collections & stick to it throughout the entire season; there are only so many cold-shoulders I can take. Where are the classics? The structured, staple pieces that will last? Sure I usually dress like a student who spends most of their time at a skate park, but I would still like the option of clean lines & effortless chic. Until that day, I'm going to continue to fill my wardrobe with items that wouldn't look out of place on your average teenager.
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<br />StephanieDJLhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08939945149545136553noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8233673589631437213.post-27137841679699511192016-11-09T18:05:00.000+00:002018-11-03T14:46:55.396+00:00How to Change the World <br />
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...or at least the world around you.
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I’m pretty sure 2016 is going to go down in history as a dismal point in the twenty first century. At least, I hope future generations look back appalled at the actions of their ancestors, however much we don't appear to have learnt from previous mistakes. <br />
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Right now, many of us are left feeling deflated, scared and disenfranchised. After the devastation of Brexit, the current election result is a heartbreak that’s hard to bear. I, like most, am terrified of what this could mean for millions of Americans. After the EU referendum, hate crime increased by 58% & I can only hope the hatred fuelling Trump’s campaign doesn’t incite a similar alarming reaction. <br />
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Be angry, be upset, be afraid, be everything & anything you need to be to make it through but please don’t give up; we have so much further to go. <br />
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& if you’re feeling hopeless, here’s 5 things you can do to make a difference right now:<br />
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Whether you find something in your cupboards or add an extra item to your weekly shop, every little helps. No one should have to go hungry, especially not in one of the 'greatest' countries in the world, but the use of Foodbanks remains at a record high. <br />
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To find your nearest Foodbank go here: <a href="https://www.trusselltrust.org/get-help/find-a-foodbank/">Trussell Trust</a> <br />
To help in America, check out <a href="http://www.feedingamerica.org/find-your-local-foodbank/">Feeding America</a> <br />
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<b>2. Disengage with the media</b> <br />
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Not all of it, obviously, just the bigoted, idiotic crap. Stop reading the Daily Fail just to 'catch up with celebrities'. Stop engaging with the likes of Katie Hopkins. Stop switching off the news because 'it's too depressing'. Stop scrutinising the bodies of reality stars. Stop believing everything you see on the front page of The Sun. Start questioning why you don't care about the Black Lives Matter movement but know who got voted off X Factor. <br />
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However frustrating it seems, knowledge is power & idiocy is dangerous. Education does not have to be held in a classroom & if you have access to the internet you have no excuse for ignorance. If you didn't vote because you 'didn't get it', that's no one's fault but your own. If you 'don't understand politics', it's not our job to teach you. If you don't care because it doesn't affect you, ask yourself why you are complacent with racism/sexism/homophobia? This is not a joke, your privilege is someone else's oppression. <br />
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<b>4. Speak up</b><br />
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Silence takes the side of the oppressor & we are all guilty of avoiding awkward situations by remaining quiet to be polite. I say, fuck that. Challenge the stranger on the bus, mouthing off about people 'taking our jobs'. Ask your friends why they think it's okay to spout sexist remarks. Confront your family when they reiterate racist bullshit. Tell your colleague you're unconformable with their homophobic remarks. Support strangers who receive unfounded abuse. Call them out & look out for one another. <br />
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<b>5. Stay sane</b><br />
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Doing what's right can be exhausting & emotionally draining. Take care of yourself first & do whatever you need to heal, your well-being is important. Your mental health is important. <i>You</i> are important. <br />
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I know it's hard & I know you're struggling but you are not alone. I truly believe together we can change the world for the better, one small, terrifying step at a time.
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Today is World Mental Health Day & although it’s been 24
years since it began, there is still a very real stigma surrounding mental
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Today I have seen supporting messages, inspiring posts &
have spent time reading other people’s stories. Now, I feel it’s time to share
my own. Honestly I’m terrified and more than slightly ashamed but I owe it to
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Confession time: I have depression & body dysmorphia. <br />
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I have for as long as I can remember. I was officially
diagnosed in my mid-teens. I have taken medication, I have been to seminars, I
have seen counsellors & I am still not okay. I have what some may call ‘high
functioning’ depression, but there are some days where I’m barely functioning
at all. I have yet to identify all of the triggers & I certainly haven’t
discovered a cure but I have to hope there will be better days. </div>
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I am loud. I am confident. I am outspoken. I am funny. I am
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sadness. I know sadness. Sadness is to cry and to feel. But it’s that cold
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Depression is the absence of hope. Depression is being
unable to envision a future. Depression is knowing you’re being irrational but
feeling like you’ve finally come to your senses. Depression is pressure on your
chest & pain in your head. Depression is feeling empty of emotion. Depression
is using all of your strength just to make it through another day. Depression
is feeling like you’re screaming & no one can hear you. Depression is continuous,
overwhelming, exhaustion. Depression is having trouble going to sleep but
struggling even harder to wake up. Depression is not something you carry, it’s
something that crushes you. </div>
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Depression has you looking in the mirror, wondering who it
is that’s staring back at you. Depression has you hysterically crying at 3 in
the morning, just hoping to end it all. Depression has you comparing yourself
to everyone else. Depression has you questioning every decision you’ve ever
made. Depression has you lashing out at your family & distancing yourself
from your friends. Depression has you waking up disappointed that you’ve made
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Depression is all-consuming, it happens when you least
expect it & the worst thing about depression is knowing you’re not alone because
as comforting as it may be, I wouldn’t wish depression on anyone. </div>
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Yes, it’s okay not to be okay; but please, please, please
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You are worth recovery. You are worth loving. You are worth
more than what you tell yourself. You are worth today & tomorrow & the
next day & the next… You are worthy of a future & you are worthy of
happiness, whatever that may look like. </div>
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Remember, you’ve survived 100% of your worst days & I
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Stay safe, stay sane. </div>
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<a href="https://www.mentalhealth.org.uk/">MH Foundation</a> // <a href="http://www.time-to-change.org.uk/">Time To Change</a> // <a href="http://www.mind.org.uk/">Mind</a> // <a href="https://www.rethink.org/">Rethink</a> // <a href="https://www.blurtitout.org/">The Blurt Foundation</a> // <a href="http://www.samaritans.org/">Samaritans</a><br />
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<![endif]-->StephanieDJLhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08939945149545136553noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8233673589631437213.post-20204348093772058152016-09-21T21:32:00.001+01:002017-08-09T22:11:59.932+01:00SB x LFW <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Yesterday I had the opportunity to take some street style snaps for Simply Be at London Fashion week! Although the idea of creepin' on peeps was a little daunting at first, I soon got into the hang of harassing people for a picture & ended up having a blast. Check out the photos on Simply Be's <a href="https://www.instagram.com/simplybeuk/">insta</a>.<br />
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I'm not sure what I expected from LFW, but I can say I was underwhelmed. One of the main venues is quite literally a car park & there didn't appear to be any cohesion to what was going on. Sure, it seemed exciting & plenty of people were dressed well but overall, the atmosphere was lacking. Considering the fashion industry brings an estimated £28 billion into the UK's economy, I would have thought more of an effort would be made to showcase the talent of our best designers. Don't even get me started on the lack of representation.<br />
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Maybe I'm just hard to please? Either way, I definitely understand <a href="http://www.graciefrancesca.com/2016/03/why-i-dont-like-london-fashion-week.html">Gracie Francesca's frustrations</a>. <br />
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<br />StephanieDJLhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08939945149545136553noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8233673589631437213.post-83914390610228183692016-09-15T22:06:00.000+01:002017-09-06T22:48:04.741+01:00Acceptable In The 80's <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Playsuit: <a href="http://adf.ly/1dz8YJ"> ASOS</a> // Belt: <a href="http://adf.ly/1dz8b9">ASOS</a> // Bag: Mansur Gavriel // Trainers: Nike // Earrings: <a href="http://adf.ly/1dz8gH">Topshop</a> // Sunglasses: Fendi</center>
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I feel the abundance of posts declaring 'PSL is back!' lulled me into a false sense of security that Autumn had arrived. So much so, that I thought donning an all black polyester outfit in 28 degree heat was a stellar idea. Let me tell you, no amount of setting spray is going to win against a waterfall of sweat. <br />
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I mean sure I looked fierce, but trying to wiggle out of this cloth prison was akin to peeling the wrapper off a melted chocolate bar. Except much less tasty. If you've ever considered taking a dip in a public restroom's sink, you'll understand my pain. If not, you're clearly a very civilised or sensible human & I admire that. <br />
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Sweat related issues aside, I'm definitely not one to complain about an extended Summer. In fact, I'm honestly quite happy to put off the dreary days & soak up the vitamin D for a while longer. Perhaps just in more sensible clothes... <br />
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If you're still here for the sun, grab a few ciders & I'll meet you in the park. <br />
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...Not in a creepy cottaging kind of way, just for a picnic. Honest. <br />
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<br />StephanieDJLhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08939945149545136553noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8233673589631437213.post-3654785461173667232016-09-09T15:09:00.000+01:002016-12-27T23:00:59.575+00:0026 Things I've Learned by 26 In case you weren't aware (& in that case, where have you been?), yesterday was my birthday. Since turning 18, I've never been a fan of birthdays as the reality of getting older has never sat well with me. Rather than wishing to be 30, flirty & thriving, I've been begging Peter Pan to pay me a visit since my Hogwarts letter failed to make an appearance. This probably has more to do with my vivid imagination as opposed to any burning desire to stay young & free from responsibility (or so I tell myself). This year my family took me out for brunch & my best friends organised a surprise birthday meal. Food with my absolute faves & a showering of gifts? Suddenly, turning 26 doesn't seem so bad.<br />
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Rather than set a list of goals to stress over, I figured I'd look back to better appreciate how far I've come. Also, because I just really enjoy reading other people's life lists.<br />
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<li>Sorry may be the hardest word but if you’re in the wrong, it’s definitely worth saying.Some things are more important than pride. </li>
<li>Using leg wax strips for anything other than your legs is a mistake. A huge mistake. Unless you enjoy walking around like a crab... </li>
<li>Never put off tomorrow what can be done today. Sure Netflix is great but trying to pack, book train tickets & clean your entire flat at 7am, on four hours sleep, isn’t fun for anyone. </li>
<li>Food planning may be boring but it’ll save you spending a tenner a day in Tesco’s, which means more money for shoes.</li>
<li>Don’t be a pussy. Seriously.</li>
<li>Using a nail file is potentially the worst way to exfoliate your face. Trust me on this one. </li>
<li>Over packing is always better than under packing. Sure, taking three suitcases on an overnight trip may seem excessive but while everyone else is second guessing their outfit choice, you’ll have your whole wardrobe on hand. Who’s the real winner? </li>
<li>Pretending to like or hate things in order to appear cool is lame. Stan One Direction with pride, boo!</li>
<li>Intersectional feminism is hella important, support your fellow peeps. </li>
<li>You cannot teach people how to love you, you can only hope they try their best. Disappointment hurts but when you know, <i>you know. </i></li>
<li>Friends who do not support you are not your friends, they’re your frenemies. Obviously this doesn’t mean they have to agree with your decision to drunkenly text your ex, but it does mean they’ll be there for you when it inevitably goes tits up. </li>
<li>Listen when people talk, don’t just wait for your turn.</li>
<li>Go with your gut, especially if your gut wants McDonalds. But seriously, if something feels wrong, don’t do it.</li>
<li>Be shameless, life is far too short to be embarrassed.</li>
<li>When meeting celebrities, make sure you’ve put a memory card in your camera. Asking for a do-over is pretty damn awkward. </li>
<li>Travelling to and from Teesside to London by coach, in less than 24 hours, on zero sleep will make you homicidal. Just book a train. </li>
<li>You are never too old to be a princess. </li>
<li>Logically, what’s the worst that could happen? Mentally assessing how you would deal with the absolute worst case scenario is a good way to deal with situational anxiety. You will survive & you will probably be better for it.</li>
<li>Consistency is the key to success. </li>
<li>Having your pants fall down in public never stops being hilarious. Especially, if you fall down with them. </li>
<li>You will survive. Every knock, every heartache, every soul-crushing moment where you’re certain you can’t go on. You will.</li>
<li>Mushrooms will always taste gross. </li>
<li>It’s okay to ask for help. From a small task to something as important as your mental health, you do not have to struggle alone. </li>
<li>Ignorance is not bliss, educate yourself, be open to new ideas and learn from your mistakes. You are never too old to learn. </li>
<li>Longevity is not necessarily better than intensity. Friends you have known for decades may not be as great as those you’ve known for mere months. </li>
<li>You will never regret spending money on experiences. Unless, the experience is an open top bus tour in London. Or an art museum in Amsterdam. Or a tour of the Bronte museum. Or really, any museum. Okay, scratch that. You may regret spending money on an experience but at least it’ll make for a funny story.</li>
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StephanieDJLhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08939945149545136553noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8233673589631437213.post-83536573883580210362016-08-02T19:02:00.000+01:002016-12-27T23:02:55.786+00:00Wedding Belles<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Playsuit: <a href="http://www.simplybe.co.uk/shop/simply-be-wrap-playsuit/jp536/product/details/show.action?pdBoUid=3467#colour:Khaki,size:"> Simply Be</a> // Heels: <a href="http://www.shoegeeks.com/index.php/trends/lace-ups/hattie-black-suede-laceup-heels.html">Shoe Geeks</a> // Bag: <a href="http://www.newlook.com/shop/womens/bags-and-purses/black-suede-fringe-trim-clutch-_375329901?productFind=search">New Look</a> // Earrings: H&M</center>
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Let's ignore the creases & wonky belt for a moment & pretend I didn't jump out of the car on the way to a wedding reception & force my little brother to take these. Ever the consummate blogging professional... but what can I say? Being on time is not my strong point.<br />
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Last Saturday, I had the pleasure of attending the wedding of my oldest friend and what an absolute delight it was. The venue had been transformed into a magical wonderland only upstaged by the beautiful bride herself, who looked absolutely stunning in a whimsical, off the shoulder gown. I must admit I got a tad emotional at the outpouring of love & it was truly an honour to be a part of their special day. Here's to a lifetime of happiness, I can't think of a more deserving pair.
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Congratulations, Mr & Mrs Ayre!<b><br />xxx</b><br />
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StephanieDJLhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08939945149545136553noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8233673589631437213.post-89889659414648528012016-07-27T21:01:00.001+01:002016-12-27T17:09:23.890+00:00Monochromatic<center><img src="https://c5.staticflickr.com/9/8874/28306150180_d4a3f69c7c_z.jpg" width="307" height="640" alt="IMG_8957"><img src="https://c8.staticflickr.com/9/8617/28590365255_0dccb1f642_z.jpg" width="302" height="640" alt="IMG_8929"><br>Jacket:<a href="http://www.newlook.com/shop/inspire-plus-sizes/jackets-and-coats/curves-black-sateen-bomber-jacket-_375100601?isRecent=true"> New Look</a> // Dress: Primark // Trainers: Adidas // Belt: <a href="http://www.asos.com/asos-curve/asos-curve-leather-western-tip-waist-and-hip-belt/prod/pgeproduct.aspx?iid=5226468&clr=Black&SearchQuery=curve+western+belt&pgesize=7&pge=0&totalstyles=7&gridsize=3&gridrow=2&gridcolumn=3">ASOS</a> // Bag: <a href="http://www.matchesfashion.com/products/Mansur-Gavriel-Gold-lined-leather-bucket-bag%09-1044789">Mansur Gavriel</a></center><br>
How is it only Wednesday? Payday is still a whole 2 days away & I'm currently having biscuits for dinner. I need it to be Friday so I can live like a queen for just one day. That's not too much to ask, surely? Also, I appear to have run out of everything at once & I need to stock up on moisturiser before I turn into a giant crocodile scale. The struggle is real, folks.<br><br>
I've had this dress approximately a hundred years but I just can't bear to let it go. Horizontal stripes are my favourite & there's nothing like saying a big 'fuck you' to bullshit fashion rules. <a href="https://twitter.com/SimoneMariposa">Simone Mariposa</a> recently started <a href="https://twitter.com/hashtag/WeWearWhatWeWant?src=hash">a Twitter movement</a> embracing body positivity & the right to wear whatever the hell you want without explanation. With everything going on in the world, it blows my mind that people are still so concerned with something as inconsequential as what somebody is wearing. Do you & mind your damn business.
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<a href="https://twitter.com/hashtag/WeWearWhatWeWant?src=hash">#WeWearWhatWeWant</a>
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I think it's safe to say, sweat has been this week's hottest accessory & I have been owning it. I'm certainly not one to complain about the appearance of Summer but perhaps as a country we should invest in a little more air-con? Especially on public transport as there's really only so much torture one person can take.<br><br>
Not going to lie, my week of Summer started off well but by Wednesday I started to run out of Summer clothes, by Thursday, my make-up consisted of just eyebrows & by Friday, I'd given up altogether. How's about that one, Craig David? If unlike me, you're wanting to look cute & you're looking to extend the lifespan of your make-up in these beaut temperatures, may I suggest picking up <a href="https://www.boots.com/en/LOreal-Paris-Infallible-Fixing-Mist-100ml_1778816/">L'Oréal's Infallible Fixing Mist</a>. 10/10 would recommend (not even promoting this, it's genuinely that good). <br><br>
Now rather than go out & enjoy the sunshine, I'm going to crawl into bed & watch Netflix until payday. I didn't choose the broke life, the broke life chose me. <br><br>
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Y'know when something looks bomb AF in your head but in reality you look like a mouldy potato? That would be this jacket. Imaginary me looked like a fabulous addition to the Pink Ladies, real me looks like I had a battle with a marshmallow and lost. On the upside, I've fallen in love with <i>another</i> pair of ASOS jeans so at least my legs will stay chic.<br><br>
In more serious news, the atrocities in the world continue to horrify and astound me. After an incredible evening at the Leed's Black Lives Matter march, waking up to the news about Nice was heartbreaking. Thoughts and prayers will never be enough, but for most of us they're all we have. Stay safe, stay strong. We can't let hate win.<br><Br>
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There's something about this outfit that makes me want to bake a bundt cake and jump in an RV. I feel as though a cooler person could give this look a laid back, L.A. vibe but here I am looking as though I'm about to ruin my kid's play by turning up drunk again. Sorry Timmy, Mamma's gotta have her juice! <br><br>
Honestly, I didn't think I would ever get on the white jeans bandwagon but here I am, feeling like a beacon of summer and light. I revamped this outfit for a dress-down day at work & got a crazy amount of compliments. Whether that was due to people liking my outfit or just being shocked I'd actually put a modicum of effort into my appearance, I'll never know. But either way, shout out to my colleagues for increasing my towering ego. <br><br>
I did have plans to take these babies to the seaside and give the donkeys a show but as is typical, the weekend arrives & the weather goes to shit. Looks like it's back to the <a href="http://www.stephaniedjl.com/2016/05/sk8r-boi.html">black Rivingtons</a> until the sun makes a reappearance. <br><br>
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So, I'm currently listening to Avril Lavigne & lamenting over the woes of my life, as you do on a Tuesday. Life just seemed simpler when the biggest concern was deciding on the fittest member of Good Charlotte (fyi, it will always be Joel). I'm going to blame my burgeoning nostalgia for this outfit because I'm sure that's the only reason I thought tying a shirt around my waist would be a good idea. Someone needs to stop me before I bring back the checkerboard sweatbands, that's just not a good look for anyone.
<br><br>Moving away from the rock star lifestyle, is it possible to fall in love with a pair of jeans? Because I'm pretty sure I've managed it with these bad boys. These ASOS Rivingtons are everything I've ever dreamed, high-waisted, skin-tight & long enough to bunch at the ankles. Excuse me while I go swoon into my trouser drawer. Between these & the dungarees, I may never wear anything else.
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